From what orifice did you pull this out?

A religious site recently posted a checklist on how to determine if your husband is gay. While I believe that there are marriages and relationships broken because of the discovery on one's sexuality, this list is just somewhat preposterous. Like I've said before, I have nothing against God. It's religion that I have issues with and this is exactly why. It is a stand up comic's dream!

They say For the sake of trust, a married couple should share everything, including phone logs, email accounts, chat friends and website histories. While total disclosure may be beneficial, sometimes ignorance is bliss, especially if aforementioned disclosure would cause more harm than good. Even if you're married, there still should be some semblance of respect and personal privacy.

3) Feigning attention in church and prayer groups Have you noticed a lack of interest in spiritual issues? Does it ever seem as if he’s just using church as an excuse to spend time around young men? Does he volunteer to mentor in all-male groups? Did you want him to volunteer in an all female group instead? So you'd rather have an adulterer on your hands?

They also state that if your husband is vain, he could be homosexual. I dunno but I like men who don't smell like 3 day old socks. And putting on lotion or moisturizer does not immediately equate to gayness, they could just really have dry skin.

With all the stuff they've written down there for us to determine homosexuality, it just shows that everyone is gay.

Bakla.